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Ep. 90: Hard Questions to Ask Yourself

We avoid many things every single day. We don’t face our fears, we pretend to be on our phones when we see someone, we don’t like to have a conversation with, we escape the thoughts that make us question ourselves and these patterns just keep on going. For us to fully know ourselves it is vital for us to keep ourselves some hard questions that would help us achieve long-term success, if we are brave enough to know what we deserve we will always end up with the best things in life


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