Ep. 136 Can Couples Therapy Save Our Marriage?
Key Points From This Episode:
How our therapist helped save our marriage from the brink of divorce.
What we learned from therapy: you can’t count on one person to be everything.
How Jamie used the voice recorder on her phone as a form of therapy.
Doug’s ‘announcer voice’ and how this stonewalls Jamie in situations of conflict.
How you can get in touch via email or social media with your questions.
The main aim of Hot Marriage Cool Parents, which is to connect with you!
Doug’s endorsement of Manly Bands and their range that you can customize.
Listener question: what did the producers find compatible about Doug and Jamie?
How Doug has shown Jamie how to get comfortable in her own skin and how Jamie has taught Doug to have drive about everything he does.
Jamie shares why the person she dated before Doug was a great guy, but not suited to her.
How Doug stayed friends with the girl he lost his virginity to.
Jamie’s voice note that she recorded in her car after a couple’s therapy session.
How finding the right fit in a therapist has been a huge game changer for us.
How putting yourself last doesn’t make you reliable, but is a way to try to get the love and acceptance of people around you.
The effect of having no boundaries, which is resentment.
How having boundaries benefits absolutely everyone in your life.
The story of how Jamie’s mother turned to drugs and put her family’s needs aside.
How she realized that setting boundaries helps her please herself and put her family first.
What Jamie identified about spreading herself too thin: that she’s no good to anyone, including herself!
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