190: What if your fairytale was finally within reach?

“I was really lost and I was so incredibly desperate for someone to love me…and to fill the void that had kind of been opened in me .”


Producers: Whit Missildine, Matt Volla


Episode Summary: Following an early childhood trauma, a woman seeks to fill the void with a series of unhealthy relationships, until a fairytale romance promises to be everything she ever wanted


Today's guest prefers to remain anonymous, but if you'd like to reach out to her directly, you can email at HerSavePoint@gmail.com, or connect on Discord at HerSavePoint#5365.


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Content/Trigger Warnings: childhood trauma, childhood sexual assault, rape, explicit language


Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho



If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources.


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