First Comes Love with Tom Rasmussen

Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom Rasmussen. Tom's new book, First Comes Love is an exploration of marriage in the 21st century and is one of our favourite reads this year.

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